FromthetimeIwasachildgrowingupinNewJersey,Ilovedspendingweekendswithmygrandparents.Theirbigoldhousewascozy,andIfeltespeciallywelcomeandrelaxedinGranny’ssmallkitchen.Itwastherethatwehadintimateconversations,andGrannyalwaysseemedtoincludemorselsofwisdomwitheveryrecipesheprepared.
IrememberoneSaturdaymorninginparticular.Iwasabout11yearsoldandhadspentthenight.AfterbreakfastIaskedGranny,“Whatkindofsoupareyoumakingtoday?”Icouldsmellthebrothsimmeringinablue-speckledenamelwarepotontopoftheoldgasstove.
“Vegetablebeef,”sheanswered.“Andyoucanhelpbychoppingsomecarrotsandcelery.”
Grannytiedanapronaroundherfullwaist.Wegotthevegetablesfromtherefrigerator:onions,carrots,celery,potatoesandcauliflower.ShegavemeaknifeandcuttingboardsoIcoulddomyshareofthework.
AsIslowlypeeledcarrots,Ilamented,“I’vegottogiveanoralbookreportnextweekandI’mscared.”
Grannylookedatmeandthenbacktothehandfulofchoppedonionsshehadmeasuredinherhand.Shedumpedthemintothesouppotandsaid,“Mostpeopleareafraidofpublicspeaking.Butremember,theonlythingwehavetofearisfearitself.So,whatexactlyareyouafraidof?”
Islumpedinmychair.“Everything,Iguess.Idon’tlikestandingupinfrontofeverybody.WhatifIforgetwhatI’mgoingtosay?Orwhatifsomebodylaughs?”
“Andwhatifyoudojustfine?”Grannyasked.“Haveyoupreparednotes?”
“Well,no.Thatwouldbealotofextrawork.”“Hardworkneverhurtanyone,”Grannycautionedasshepointedthewoodenspoontowardme.“Youcouldtrypracticinginfrontofamirror.”
Ipushedthepiecesofcarrotstothesideofthecuttingboard.TheroomwasquietexceptforGranny’sthick-heeledlace-upshoesclickingacrossthewornlinoleumfloor.Shetookthechoppedcarrotstothestoveandaddedthemtothesoup.Then,asIslicedcelery,Iwentontocomplainaboutschoolwork,friendsandfamily.AsfarasIwasconcerned,Ihadmoretroublesthantheamountofchoppedvegetablesonthewoodencuttingboard
infrontofme.