一个人何时变老

(整期优先)网络出版时间:2011-12-22
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一个人何时变老

“Idreadtocometotheendoftheyear,”saidafriendtomerecently,“itmakesmerealizeIamgrowingold.”

WilliamJames,thegreatpsychologist,saidthatmostmenare“oldfogiesattwenty-five”,Hewasright.Mostmenattwenty-fivearesatisfiedwiththeirjobs.Theyhaveaccumulatedthelittlestockofprejudicesthattheycalltheir“Principles,”andclosedtheirmindstoallnewideas;theyhaveceasedtogrow.Ontheotherhand,thereallygreatmannevergrowsold.

Goethepassedoutateighty-three,andfinishedhisFaustonlyafewyearsearlier;Gladstonetookupanewlanguagewhenhewasseventy.Laplace,theastronomer,wasstillatworkwhendeathcaughtupwithhimatseventy-eight.Hediedcrying,“Whatweknowisnothing;whatwedonotknowisimmense.”

Andthereyouhavetherealanswertothequestion,“Whenisamanold?”

Laplaceatseventy-eightdiedyoung.Hewasstillunsatisfied,stillsurethathehadalottolearn.

Aslongasamancankeephimselfinthatattitudeofmind,aslongashecanlookbackoneveryyearandsay,“Igrew,”heisstillyoung.

Theminuteheceasestogrow,theminutehesaystohimself,“IknowallthatIneedtoknow,”—thatdayyouthstops.Hemaybetwenty-fiveorseventy-five,itmakesnodifference.Onthatdayhebeginstobeold.

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